Protecting Our Kids Starts with a Conversation: How To Open the Narrative About Body Safety

At Moses Movement, we believe prevention starts with education—not just in schools or through our live productions, but right at home, around the dinner table, in bedtime stories, and during car rides with our little ones. One of the most powerful tools we have to protect children from exploitation is open, age-appropriate communication about body safety.

Many parents and caregivers feel uncertain about how to talk to young children about boundaries and private parts. It can feel awkward or even frightening—but silence creates vulnerability. At Moses Movement, we want to equip you with simple, effective ways to begin these critical conversations with confidence and care.

Start Early and Keep it Simple

Children as young as two or three can begin learning about their bodies in healthy, empowering ways. Use the correct anatomical terms like “penis,” “vagina,” “buttocks,” and “chest” when talking about body parts. It might feel uncomfortable at first, but using accurate language removes shame and gives children the words they need if they ever need to report inappropriate behavior.

Instead of making it a one-time talk, weave body safety into everyday conversations. Bath time, doctor visits, and even media moments can be natural openings for these discussions.

Teach the “Private Parts” Rule

Explain that private parts are the areas covered by a swimsuit. These are not for other people to see or touch, with a few exceptions—like a parent helping them stay clean, or a doctor during a checkup (and only with a trusted adult present). Reinforce that if anyone tries to break this rule, your child should tell you or another trusted adult right away.

Use Clear, Positive Messages

Kids don’t need fear—they need facts. Here are some empowering phrases to practice together:

• “Your body belongs to you.”

• “It’s okay to say no, even to an adult.”

• “If someone makes you feel uncomfortable, tell me right away.”

• “You will never be in trouble for telling me the truth.”

  
  

Repetition helps these truths sink in. Practice them regularly so your child knows what to do and that you’re a safe place.

Talk About Safe and Unsafe Secrets

Teach your child the difference between fun secrets (like a birthday surprise) and unsafe secrets (anything that makes them feel confused, scared, or worried). Encourage them to come to you about any secret someone tells them to keep—especially if it involves touching, gifts, or threats.

Role Play Real-Life Scenarios

Practice what they can say or do if someone tries to touch them inappropriately. Use simple scripts like:

• “Stop! I don’t like that.”

• “I’m telling my mom (or dad, or teacher) right now.”

  
  

These rehearsals can empower a child to respond confidently in a tough moment.

Keep the Door Open

The most important thing? Keep talking. Create a family culture of open communication. When you show your child they can come to you with anything, they’re more likely to speak up if something happens.

At Moses Movement, we envision a future where every child is protected—and that starts with equipping adults. You don’t need to have all the answers. You just need to start the conversation.

Take the First Step

Want more resources on how to protect your children from exploitation and create a safety-first environment in your home, school, or church?

👉 Join the Movement and download our Body Safety Conversation Guide for Parents.